How to Explain FASD to Your Child or Youth
FEBRUARY 22, 2021
When you feel the time is right, explaining your child or youth’s diagnosis of FASD with them can help with self-acceptance. They may be blaming themselves for “not trying hard enough” or “not being good enough”. We know that these thoughts are simply not the truth. They need to understand why they may have certain challenges, and how their own strengths and the support of others can help them lead a full life.
Approaching the Conversation
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See it through their eyes
- Think about how they will understand and see this new information about themselves, not how you think they should accept it
Use words that they use often or understand easily
Use books or stories
Tell them some basic ways FASD might be affecting them
- Use examples, sharing how FASD has affected others
Things to Remember
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Be comfortable having this conversation multiple times. This will help them:
- Process the information
- Remember the subject matter discussed
- By creating an opportunity to ask questions
- By speaking openly, removing stigma, embarrassment, shame
Make sure they know FASD is not who they are.
- FASD is a disability that requires help
- Have conversations about their strengths and interests (not just FASD)
- Compliment their successes
Reference
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ASD Network of Saskatchewan: Tips for parents and caregivers.
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